8 Ways to Guide Him to Your Clitoris
Got a guy who keeps avoiding the one place you want him to go? Do and say these moves to help him find it ASAP.
By Annie Daly
Guys don't always get that your clitoris is the key to giving you an orgasm. Got a guy who keeps avoiding the one place you want him to go? Do and say these moves to help him find it ASAP.
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Say This: "You're so good at rubbing my clitoris in circular motions with your fingertips...it gets me really turned on."
Why it Works: Giving him props strokes his ego, and he'll want to live up to his rep. And if he wasn't doing it correctly before, well, you just spelled out how you like it.
Why it Works: Giving him props strokes his ego, and he'll want to live up to his rep. And if he wasn't doing it correctly before, well, you just spelled out how you like it.
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Do This: When he kisses you, gently push him away, whisper "watch," and touch yourself exactly how you like it. Then nod your head in his direction to let him know it's his turn.
Why it Works: First, you touching yourself in front of him = hot. Also, guys are super visual creatures, so seeing exactly how you like it makes it way easier for him to do as you do.
Why it Works: First, you touching yourself in front of him = hot. Also, guys are super visual creatures, so seeing exactly how you like it makes it way easier for him to do as you do.
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Do This: Put lube on his fingers and guide his hand down, then let him take charge.
Why it Works: Lube acts as a signal that you really want to get into it, which will totally turn him on.
Why it Works: Lube acts as a signal that you really want to get into it, which will totally turn him on.
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Say This: "I'm very sensitive down there, so I like it best when you touch me really gently."
Why it Works: Spelling it out for him eliminates any insecurities he may have about caressing you correctly.
Why it Works: Spelling it out for him eliminates any insecurities he may have about caressing you correctly.
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Say This: "The only way I can orgasm is when you or I touch my clitoris."
Why it Works: You're basically saying, touch me there or it's not happening. And that blunt language translates well into dude-speakhe'll get the hint.
Why it Works: You're basically saying, touch me there or it's not happening. And that blunt language translates well into dude-speakhe'll get the hint.
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Do This: Start touching yourself with one hand, then grab his hand with your other hand and bring him in so he's touching you at the same time.
Why it Works: Double the pleasure, double the fun! No, but seriously, making it a joint effort lowers the pressurewhich means he'll feel more at ease, so touching you on his own will be an organic, natural next step.
Why it Works: Double the pleasure, double the fun! No, but seriously, making it a joint effort lowers the pressurewhich means he'll feel more at ease, so touching you on his own will be an organic, natural next step.
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Say This: "I couldn't stop thinking about you touching me today…."
Why it Works: Simply hearing that you were fantasizing about him turns him on, so he will be more likely to focus on pleasing you again.
Why it Works: Simply hearing that you were fantasizing about him turns him on, so he will be more likely to focus on pleasing you again.
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Say This: "If you go down on me and make me orgasm, I'll give you the best blow job of your life."
Why it Works: Did someone say best BJ? Sold.
Sources: Amy Levine, New York City-based sex expert and founder of Ignite Your Pleasure; Ava Cadell, PhD, author of 12 Steps to Everlasting Love
Why it Works: Did someone say best BJ? Sold.
Sources: Amy Levine, New York City-based sex expert and founder of Ignite Your Pleasure; Ava Cadell, PhD, author of 12 Steps to Everlasting Love
Annie Daly is a New York City-based freelance writer, editor, and author who specializes in wellness, travel, and culture. She is the author of Destination Wellness (2021), and co-author of Island Wisdom (2022). A former editor at SELF, Cosmopolitan, BuzzFeed Travel, Yahoo Travel, and Good Housekeeping, she has also written for a variety of publications, including Condé Nast Traveler, Vogue, Travel + Leisure, Marie Claire, InStyle, and AFAR, among others. To follow her work, find her on IG @anniemdaly and subscribe to her Substack, Destination Wellness.
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