How to Keep a Relationship Hot

Do something daring together, like zip-lining or bungee jumping. When you get your adrenaline going with your man, you automatically feel more passion towards each other.

Next time it's date night, dress up like it's your first date. Slip on your sexiest dress and heels, and get your hair done. Remind him how effing hot you are (as if he could forget). Get those butterflies going like the first time you met.

No matter how long you've been together, it's impossible to know everything about each other. So crack open a bottle of wine and have a night of telling each other silly stories about your childhood. Spilling funny tales from the pastlike that time you swallowed a worm on a darewill make the two of you feel more connected.

Sure, you're not going to like all of the same stuff, but it's the effort to be flexible that counts. If he wants to take you to a Phish concert, partner up on a video game, or watch Remember The Titans for the umpteenth time, go with it. Showing him how you're willing to take one for the team now and then will remind him why he likes you so muchand make him more likely to return the favor.

Have one night a month where you round up your closest friends (his and yours) for a get-together. The good vibe of all the people you love in one room will rub off on the two of you.

When you're out and you spot something small you think your guy will like, buy it. Something as tiny as a mag with his celeb crush on the cover will let him know you're thinking about him.